Okay so its six months gone
already and most of the resolutions and goals on your lists are still unticked
and the frustration is really getting to you? No need to pull your hair out or
kick the dog, keep calm and take a deep breath. The temptation is always there
to kick yourself hard, let the frustration blind your effort or even give up
but a new insight occurred to me-how about if you embraced the lessons from the
delays, release the regret for what you may have done differently and run into
the remaining half year with renewed enthusiasm?
The first step is to take a deep
breath and have an honest look at why you have not progressed as fast as you may
have planned to. Until you take time to really check where it is you went wrong
in the last six months, the next six might turn out the very same way and far
be it from you that you waste the whole year. So at this point I would say have
that critically honest evaluation of what kept you from executing your plan and
resolve to get it right. It could have been that you may not have managed your
time very well, did not anticipate all the other responsibilities that then
came your way or you just really are not sure what happened. Either way it is
not too late to learn that you need to make a deliberate effort to get where
you want to be at, deliberately avoid past pitfalls and stick to what worked
well.
Yet again there are things
you still believe you could have done differently and you just can’t seem to
forgive yourself for not grabbing the opportunity. Understandably so, some may
have seemed like the once in a lifetime opportunity that would have been your
big break but what good is that guilt trip besides
blinding you to other opportunities currently in front of you? It would be an
even worse tragedy if you miss more opportunities weeping over that one you
already lost. It’s gone and if you really can’t bring it back then just let it
go. No point in weeping over spilt milk so forgive yourself, release the regret
and run with renewed enthusiasm,
There is still six more months in
the year. Drawing strength from the lessons learnt, foundations built and the
freedom from regret , run after your dreams with renewed enthusiasm. I am
constantly amazed by the power of keeping keeping on because every time you try
again you are wiser in at least one more way. So how about it, take time today
to reflect on the last half year and decide on the necessary changes for a
brighter last half of 2013. Remember-though
you cannot do everything, do not let it stop you from doing that which you
actually can..in pursuit of significance.....
"It doesnt matter if you try and try and try again and fail.It does matter if you try and fail,and fail to try again." Unknown
ReplyDeleteGood words Taffy wil keep on tryin...