Look here, whether
you are going to deny this glaring fact or embrace it, it will always affect
your life: This world is run by those who have mastered the art of captivating
the hearts of men and stirring people’s hearts with the great and potent force
of word, Orators!
History is a gallery
of men whose words still remain thundering and echoing into eternity while
their mortal bodies have long decayed. The truth is that all humans are ready
to yield to those who say they words they want to hear in the way they want to
hear it. Learn to use that human quality to your advantage.
What makes a great
orator, one may ask? That is a question that most have already answered, though
most answers are awfully wrong and off the mark. Most people think that all
great orators were born with the quality inherently and they think that the
extroverts are the ones who make great and powerful orators.
Well let’s look at a
few pointers that can help you speaking your way into the hearts of men that
gives you incredible power that few can resist.
1.
Talk
sense
You cannot expect
anyone to give you an ear, let alone take you seriously when you do not talk
sense. You need to remember the simple but age old adage always and use it;
“think before you talk.” You need to be able to clearly arrange and plan your
words before you speak. Do not be reckless with words; once they are out of
your mouth you cannot reclaim them.
2.
Know
and Study Your Audience
Remember that while
most people will claim that they are open minded the truth is that most people
are only looking for people who say what they want to hear. While you are busy
saying a whole lot of things they are listening to you in an idle manner. You
only get their peak attention and concentration when you touch on the topics
and issues they want to hear. In order to increase your oratory power you need
to study the audience you will address beforehand so that you know what to say
and how to say it. You cannot be a generic speaker and be powerful. You have to
speak in a way that is specifically aimed and targeted at your audience.
3.
Evoke
powerful emotions in your audience
Remember after some
time, people will no longer remember what you say, but they will remember how
you make them feel. Any great speaker is able to move the hearts of the
audience, by evoking powerful emotions in the very audience. Your words should
be able to cause great feelings to spring forth inside your audience. When you
are able to make people feel, what few others can make them feel, and then you
wield a power that can make those people act in a certain manner that you
intend. Evoking the emotions of your audience usually involves speaking about
the issues that either once affected those people or currently involve them.
Questions can be used while speaking to summon the audience to carry out
personal reflections, or even the use of poetry and music can drive the message
home.
4.
Speak
to be heard and Understood not to confuse
Most people
especially those who speak public, on public forums, televisions and radios
think that it makes them seem important to use very huge words while speaking.
That is an untruth that comes mainly from our history of colonisation where
some people felt like impressing their audience by being more English than the
English themselves. Desist from using words that would make your audience look
for a dictionary in order to get the message of your speech. In fact all
powerful speakers know that their intention is to pass a message that result in
conviction and then action.
5.
Listen
Well
You cannot speak
well, if you are not able to listen well. Listen usually comes first. Those people
who rush to speak before they hear often commit serious mistakes that they
cannot redeem themselves from. It is wise to listen twice and speak once, and
they say that is why we have two ears and one mouth. If you cannot listen to
others you will not be able to speak in a way that touches them. Sadly some
people are not even able to listen to themselves when they speak, and you
wonder why they have a hope of being speakers of great renown.
Remember that in
order for one to achieve great and lasting success, there is need to use
oratory abilities to position and market yourself well. You have to be able to
lure people to cooperate with you.
Till next week, God
bless you all.
Ciao…
The writer is a
Motivational Teacher and can be contacted on glendhliwayo@gmail.com
This article is also published in Zimbabwe's Biggest Weekend Paper on this link: http://www.herald.co.zw/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=80819:how-to-become-a-great-orator&catid=83:coo-llife-style#.Ua2IprU_vIU
This article is also published in Zimbabwe's Biggest Weekend Paper on this link: http://www.herald.co.zw/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=80819:how-to-become-a-great-orator&catid=83:coo-llife-style#.Ua2IprU_vIU
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