Those
who have done O level mathematics are so familiar with the term vector? Well
don’t be scared guys; this is not going to be a mathematics lesson. Most of you
get Goosebumps when they hear the word mathematics right? We mentioned vectors
because we shall be looking at a similar concept.
A
vector is defined as the shortest straight line that joins two points. So when
walking with some of the learned colleagues, at times they apply the principle
of the vector. Instead of going around corners they create their own path,
which is a straight line that cuts the corner. The vector is usually visible in
lawny landscapes where you will see a path in the lawn indicating frequenting
of the path. If you tell these colleagues not to cut corners they will often remind
you that they are simply using the vector.
However
in life vectors are not usually encouraged. In simple terms a vector is a short
cut. Short cuts in life are usually dangerous as they result in often
unforeseen circumstances. Most people especially teenagers prefer the shortcuts
though as they seem to save time and energy.
Life
often has paths and routes that one has to follow in order to achieve
something. These paths unfortunately cannot be easily averted from without some
consequences.
The
reason why most young people desire shortcuts in life is because they want an
easy life that comes without putting in the required effort. Most people, if
not all desire the best things of life, but, few are prepared to put in the
work that matches their dreams. Some people refer to our generation as the
click generation because we are so used to having things coming in at the click
of a button or mouse. Life does not work like that at all. Nothing comes while
you are seated doing nothing.
The
news has been awash with people, including young people who have been caught up
in some terrible things or situations because of desiring shortcuts or an easy
life. There have been cases of school pupils who were initiated into Satanism because
they fall victim to the desire for short cuts. One particular case was of a
child at a boarding school who had a friend who was better off and had
everything she needed. Unfortunately the other student who barely survived was
then initiated into Satanism by the other student because she always went to
the better off student begging for food. She was told that she too could have
all she wanted and she fell for it and was given a ring that she would use to
bring her all she needed. That was it and she was into Satanism. Clearly this
was a desire for shortcuts. Everyone knows that food or groceries are bought
from the shops. They never just appear. The other student was supposed to
question why a ring would make food appear just like that, unfortunately she
didn’t and because of that shortcut she got involved into Satanism.
Some
young girls also become involved with sugar daddies because of the desire for
shortcuts. They desert their main and core activity, school, to be with these
sugar daddies at times so that they can just have a bite of pizza, or at the
price of the latest phone or hairstyle. Avoid such shortcuts. In the long run
the shortcuts become too costly when you are pregnant and maybe infected with
HIV by the sugar daddy that will always dump you after he has exploited of you.
Young men too need to be aware of this as sugar mummies, or cougars as they
have come to be known are on the rise in our society.
Even
though they may look appealing at times, remember that not all that glitters is
gold. Take your time to analyse any short cut presented to you and see if it is
really a short cut or a wrong cut. Most of these things that seem too good to
be true are never shortcuts. In fact if anything is too good to be true then it
is not true. Do not desire to have wealth that you cannot account for clearly
otherwise you will end being caught up in corruption, stealing, transactional
sex, drugs, cultism or even being trafficked. Some young girls are victim to
people purporting to be modelling agents who promise them big contracts and
they end up being trafficked across border only to be used in brothels.
If
you are still young you have many prospects and opportunities ahead of you if
you make the right choices. What is important is progress and not how fast you
make it. Step by step your dream will come true.
The
writer is a motivational speaker
He
can be contacted on glendhliwayo@gmail.com
Great stuff,on point,keep up the good work
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